I think we are bound to, and by, nature. We may want to deny this connection and try to believe we control the external world, but every time there's a snowstorm or drought, we know our fate is tied to the world around us
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Just because something is unspoken doesn't mean that it disappears.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Unexpressed thoughts and feelings still exist and influence our interactions.
Alice Hoffman's quote highlights the idea that unspoken emotions and thoughts do not simply vanish; instead, they linger and impact our lives and relationships. It suggests the importance of communication and the need to address what remains unsaid to fully understand ourselves and others.
Themes
UnspokenFeelingsCommunicationRelationshipsThoughts
In practice
Example use cases
During a family gathering, someone could use this quote to prompt a discussion about unresolved issues.
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