To touch and feel each thing in the world, to know it by sight and by name, and then to know it with your eyes closed so that when something is gone, it can be recognized by the shape of its absence. So that you can continue to possess the lost, because absence is the only constant thing. Because you can get free of everything except the space where things have been.
Sometimes, waking early before the others, wandering the rooms wrapped in a blanket or drinking my tea in the empty kitchen, I had that most rare of feelings, the sense that the world, so consistently overwhelming and incomprehensible, in fact has an order, oblique as it may seem, and I a place within it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the tranquility of solitude, suggesting that moments of quiet can reveal a deeper understanding of one's place in the world.
In this quote, Nicole Krauss captures the serene experience of solitary moments that can provide clarity amidst chaos. Waking early, wrapped in comfort and enjoying a peaceful moment with tea, she articulates a profound realization of the order that exists in the seemingly chaotic world. This experience offers her a rare feeling of belonging and understanding, indicating that introspection and solitude can lead to insights about one's identity and the universe.
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In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a mindfulness workshop to emphasize the importance of solitude.
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Only later did I come to understand that to be a mother is to be an illusion. No matter how vigilant, in the end a mother can't protect her child - not from pain, or horror, or the nightmare of violence, from sealed trains moving rapidly in the wrong direction, the depravity of strangers, trapdoors, abysses, fires, cars in the rain, from chance.
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When we went into the ocean, I watched his body as he dove into the waves, and it gave me a feeling in my stomach that wasn't an ache but something different.
Herman slipped his hand into mine, and I thought, An average of seventy-four species become extinct every day, which was one good reason but not the only one to hold someone's hand, and the next thing that happened was we kissed each other, and I found I knew how, and I felt happy and sad in equal parts, because I knew that I was falling in love, but it wasn't with him.
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