Try any goddam thing you like, no matter how boringly normal or outrageous. If it works, fine. If it doesn't, toss it. Toss it even if you love it.
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Sometimes loving eyes don't see what they don't want to see.
Interpretation
People in love may overlook flaws or problematic behaviors in their loved ones.
This quote by Stephen King highlights the phenomenon where love can cloud judgment, leading individuals to ignore negative traits or issues in those they care about. It emphasizes the way emotions can create a biased perception, preventing one from seeing reality clearly, especially when it may be uncomfortable or painful to acknowledge.
In practice
You might use this quote in a discussion about relationship dynamics at a couples' workshop.
Try any goddam thing you like, no matter how boringly normal or outrageous. If it works, fine. If it doesn't, toss it. Toss it even if you love it.
Eddie discovered one of his childhood's great truths. Grownups are the real monsters, he thought.
Hairstyles change, and skirt lengths, and slang, but high school administrations? Never.
Description begins in the writer’s imagination, but should finish in the reader’s.
That's the day's business. Thinking. Thinking and isolation, because it doesn't matter if you pass the time of day with someone or not; in the end, you're alone. He seemed to have put in as many miles in his brain as he had with his feet. The thoughts kept coming and there was no way to deny them.
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One cannot know what a man really is by the end of a fortnight.
The thing that's between us is fascination, and the fascination resides in our being alike. Whether you're a man or a woman, the fascination resides in finding out that we're alike.
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