Why do you put your self esteem in the hands of complete strangers?
Helena Bonham CarterRead
Sometimes I get it right and I sometimes I get it wrong. But fashion is all about having fun. I think fashion has been hijacked by the fashion industry creating rules on what one should wear and I feel like breaking the mold and seeing that the world won’t crumble.
Interpretation
Fashion should be enjoyable and personal, rather than dictated by strict industry rules.
In this quote, Helena Bonham Carter emphasizes the playfulness and individual expression inherent in fashion, arguing against the rigid guidelines imposed by the fashion industry. She advocates for a more liberated approach to personal style, suggesting that breaking free from conventional norms allows for creativity and joy without the fear of negative consequences.
In practice
During a speech at a fashion event, to encourage designers to embrace creativity.
Why do you put your self esteem in the hands of complete strangers?
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