Prayer is not overcoming God's reluctance. It is laying hold of His willingness.
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Spare the rod and spoil the child - that is true. But, beside the rod, keep an apple to give him when he has done well.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Discipline is important, but so is rewarding good behavior.
This quote emphasizes the balance between discipline and positive reinforcement in education and child-rearing. While it acknowledges the necessity of correction and discipline ('the rod'), it also highlights the importance of encouragement and reward ('an apple') when a child behaves well, suggesting a holistic approach to nurturing and educating children.
Themes
DisciplineEducationParentingRewardBehavior
In practice
Example use cases
During a parenting workshop, I shared this quote to discuss the importance of balancing discipline with positive reinforcement.
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All quotes βNow if I believe in God's Son and remember that He became man, all creatures will appear a hundred times more beautiful to me than before. Then I will properly appreciate the sun, the moon, the stars, trees, apples, as I reflect that he is Lord over all things. ...God writes the Gospel, not in the Bible alone, but also on trees, and in the flowers and clouds and stars.
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It is the part of a Christian to take care of his own body for the very purpose that, by its soundness and wellbeing, he may be enabled to labour, and to acquire and preserve property, for the aid of those who are in want, that thus the stronger member may serve the weaker member, and we may be children of God, and busy for one another, bearing one another's burdens, and so fulfiling the law of Christ.
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Reason is the greatest enemy that faith has; it never comes to the aid of spiritual things, but more frequently than not struggles against the divine Word, treating with contempt all that emanates from God.
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We will win our freedom because the sacred heritage of our nation and the eternal will of God are embodied in our echoing demands.
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In a mouse we admire God's creation and craft work. The same may be said about flies.
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