It seems that fighting is a game where everybody is the loser.
Zora Neale HurstonRead
The spirit of the marriage left the bedroom and took to living in the parlor.
Interpretation
This quote suggests that the essence of a marriage can fade when intimacy and connection are compromised.
Zora Neale Hurston's quote reflects a poignant observation about the state of marriages, indicating that the deep connection that couples share often diminishes over time, moving from a personal and intimate space to a more superficial one. It highlights the importance of maintaining emotional and physical closeness in relationships to prevent the essence or 'spirit' of the marriage from fading away.
In practice
During a wedding toast, a speaker might refer to this quote to emphasize the importance of nurturing intimacy in marriage.
It seems that fighting is a game where everybody is the loser.
Lack of power and opportunity passes off too often for virtue.
From barren brown stems to glistening leaf-buds; from the leaf-buds to snowy virginity of bloomβ¦It was like a flute song forgotten in another existence and remembered again. What? How? Why? This singing she heard that had nothing to do with her ears. The rose of the world was breathing out smell. It followed her through all her waking moments and caressed her in her sleep.
Someone is always at my elbow reminding me that I am the granddaughter of slaves. It fails to register depression with me.
Don't you realize that the sea is the home of water? All water is off on a journey unless it's in the sea, and it's homesick, and bound to make its way home someday.
Two things everybody's got tuh do fuh theyselves. They got tuh go tuh God, and they got tuh find out about livin' fuh theyselves.
I have insecurities of course, but I don't hang out with anyone who points them out to me.
I sat down on the edge of a deep soft chair and looked at Mrs Regan. She was worth a stare. She was trouble.
Your only real choices are to open fully and receive their gifts or crucify them and be relieved of their force...But you must be willing to feel your heart's terrors and wounds or else you will close and protect yourself, striking back at the source of openness you most yearn to become.
When life's conditions don't equal your expectations you are unhappy, have no expectations only appreciations (especially in the area of relationships)
What a terrible thing it is to wound someone you really care for and to do it so unconsciously.
One of the most powerful of all our passions is the desire to be admired and respected.
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