Social reality is so complicated that, once you join one team or the other, you become specialized in detecting certain patterns, but you become blind to other patterns.
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Sports is to war as pornography is to sex. We get to exercise some ancient, ancient drives.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote compares the competitive nature of sports to war and the depiction of pornography to real sex, suggesting that both serve as substitutes for deeper primal instincts.
Jonathan Haidt's quote reflects on the role of sports and pornography in modern society, suggesting that they fulfill basic human drives similar to those of war and sex. Both sports and pornography provide an outlet for our innate instincts in a controlled and socially acceptable manner, allowing individuals to engage with competition and desire without the consequences associated with their more primal forms. This analogy raises questions about how we channel our ancient impulses in contemporary ways.
Themes
SportsWarPornographySexHuman DrivesCompetition
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion on the societal value of sports, one might quote this to emphasize its primal significance.
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