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And then, strange to say, the first symptom of true love in a young man is timidity; in a girl, it is boldness.
Victor Hugo
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What this quote means

True love elicits different emotional responses in men and women, showcasing timidity in men and boldness in women.

Victor Hugo's quote highlights the contrasting ways in which young men and women experience the onset of true love. While a young man may feel timid and vulnerable, unsure of how to express his feelings, a young woman might display boldness and confidence, actively pursuing the affection she desires. This reflects broader societal norms and psychological dynamics in romantic relationships, suggesting that love can bring out both shyness and courage depending on gender roles.

Themes

LoveTimidityBoldnessRomanceGender

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding toast, one could use this quote to reflect on the different ways couples express love.

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