Love, experienced thus, is a constant challenge; it is not a resting place, but a moving, growing, working together; even whether there is harmony or conflict; joy or sadness, is secondary to the fundamental fact that two people experience themselves from the essence of their existence, that they are only one with each other by being one with themselves, rather than by fleeing from themselves.
The successful revolutionary is a statesman, the unsuccessful one a criminal.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Success and failure in revolution are defined by perception; statesmen are seen as successful while criminals are not.
This quote by Erich Fromm reflects the idea that the outcomes of revolutionary actions are often judged by their success or failure. Those who achieve their revolutionary goals are celebrated as statesmen, embodying political legitimacy, while those who do not succeed are deemed criminals, reflecting societal disapproval. It highlights the subjective nature of morality and the distinction between acceptance and condemnation based on the results of one's efforts.
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Example use cases
During a speech about political change, one could reference this quote to spark discussion about the nature of revolutions.
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All quotes βBoth dreams and myths are important communications from ourselves to ourselves. If we do not understand the language in which they are written, we miss a great deal of what we know and tell ourselves in those hours when we are not busy manipulating the outside world.
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In times of change, learners inherit the earth
In the nineteenth century the problem was that God is dead. In the twentieth century the problem is that man is dead.
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