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The Sufis advise us to speak only after our words have managed to pass through three gates. At the first gate, we ask ourselves, 'Are these words true?' If so, we let them pass on; if not, back they go. At the second gate, we ask, 'Are the necessary?' At the last gate, we ask, 'Are they kind?'
Eknath Easwaran
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What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the importance of thoughtful communication by filtering our words through truth, necessity, and kindness.

Eknath Easwaran's quote highlights a profound approach to communication inspired by Sufi wisdom. It encourages individuals to reflect on their words before speaking, ensuring they are truthful, necessary, and kind. This method promotes deeper connections and more meaningful interactions, fostering a more considerate and compassionate approach to dialogue in personal and public discourse.

Themes

CommunicationWisdomTruthKindnessThoughtfulness

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Example use cases

During a public speaking event to emphasize the importance of mindful communication.

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