I became a man in New York. New York made me the musician that I am and the person that I am, so it's impossible for me to say I regret having lived there.
Wynton MarsalisRead
In the summer of 1988, my father took me up to look at the remains of our home, the dream house that he'd built. It was my first time since our family left four years earlier. Political and obscene graffiti covered the half-torn walls. There was no ceiling and surprisingly no floor: the parquet, the stone, the marble, all looted.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the irreversible impact of loss and the passage of time.
Rabih Alameddine's quote captures a vivid memory of returning to a once-beloved home, now reduced to ruins by time and circumstance. It illustrates the deep emotional connection we have to places and how loss—whether due to war, politics, or decay—can alter our perceptions and memories. The imagery of the graffiti and the absence of a proper structure symbolizes not only physical destruction but also the erosion of dreams and family bonds, suggesting a poignant reflection on resilience amidst devastation.
In practice
Using this quote during a speech about rebuilding communities after loss.
I became a man in New York. New York made me the musician that I am and the person that I am, so it's impossible for me to say I regret having lived there.
Nothing in my life ever seemed to fade away or take its rightful place among the pantheon of experiences that constituted my eighteen years. It was all still with me, the storage space in my brain crammed with vivid memories, packed and piled like photographs and old dresses in my grandmother’s bureau. I wasn’t just the madwoman in the attic — I was the attic itself. The past was all over me, all under me, all inside me.
Let it be forgotten, as a flower is forgotten, Forgotten as a fire that once was singing gold, Let it be forgotten forever and ever, Time is a kind friend, he will make us old.
Get the most out of everything in your life; the happiness and the sadness, the success and the failure...get a good perspective of what life is all about. Let the orchestra of your life play all the notes, the high notes, the low rumblings of the difficulties and perplexities that all we all face.
It would help not to treat age as if it were any less of a pleasure than it was when we were six and saying, 'I'm six and a half.' You know, we could be saying, 'I'm fifty and a half' and say it with joy. Each age is different and has different discoveries and pleasures.
Life is like a library owned by the author. In it are a few books which he wrote himself, but most of them were written for him.
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