Pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. The really great men must, I think, have great sadness on earth.
Here my tears are falling, Nastenka. Let them flow, let them flow - they don't hurt anybody. They will dry Nastenka.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote expresses the emotional release of tears associated with love and longing, indicating that showing vulnerability is not harmful.
In this quote, Fyodor Dostoevsky highlights the importance of allowing oneself to express emotions freely, particularly in the context of love and longing. The tears symbolize a release of pent-up feelings, suggesting that vulnerability can ultimately lead to healing and connection, especially in the relationship with Nastenka. The acceptance of these tears signifies that they do not harm anyone, implying that expressing one's deeper emotions is a natural and necessary part of human experience.
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Example use cases
In a heartfelt speech, one might say, 'As Dostoevsky once expressed, my tears are falling, and like him, I understand that they do not hurt anyone.'
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