How vainly men themselves amaze, / To win the palm, the oak, or bays; / And their incessant labours see / Crowned from some single herb or tree.
Andrew MarvellRead
Therefore the love which us doth bind,_x000D_ _x000D_ But fate so enviously debars,_x000D_ _x000D_ Is the conjunction of the mind,_x000D_ _x000D_ And opposition of the stars.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the idea that love is influenced by both connection and external circumstances.
In this quote, Andrew Marvell expresses the complex nature of love, suggesting that while love may unite people at a deep, mental level, it is often obstructed by fate and external factors. The metaphor of 'the opposition of the stars' implies that despite strong feelings of affection, outside forces can hinder relationships, reinforcing the struggle between romantic desires and the realities dictated by fate.
In practice
This quote could be shared at a wedding to highlight the challenges of love.
How vainly men themselves amaze, / To win the palm, the oak, or bays; / And their incessant labours see / Crowned from some single herb or tree.
Meanwhile the mind, from pleasure less, Withdraws into its happiness; The mind, that ocean where each kind Does straight its own resemblance find; Yet it creates, transcending these, Far other worlds, and other seas; Annihilating all that's made To a green thought in a green glade ... Such was that happy garden-state.
How could such sweet and wholesome hours be reckoned, but in herbs and flowers?
Now therefore, while the youthful hue Sits on thy skin like morning dew, And while thy willing soul transpires At every pore with instant fires Now let us sport us while we may, And now, like amorous birds of prey, Rather at once our time devour Than languish in his slow-chapped power. Let us roll our strength and all Our sweetness up into one ball And tear our pleasures with rough strife Through the iron gates of life: Thus, while we cannot make our sun Stand still, yet we will make him run.
Annihilating all that's made, To a green thought in a green shade.
Self-preservation, nature's first great law, all the creatures, except man, doth awe.
They've got no idea what happiness is, they don't know that without this love there is no happiness or unhappiness for us--there is no life.
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Woman is sacred; the woman one loves is holy.
These two criteria are like the pillars of true love: deeds, and the gift of self.
It is time to put up a love-swing!_x000D_ Tie the body and then tie the mind so that they _x000D_ swing between the arms of the Secret One you love,_x000D_ Bring the water that falls from the clouds to your eyes,_x000D_ and cover yourself inside entirely with the shadow of night._x000D_ Bring your face up close to his ear,_x000D_ and then talk only about what you want deeply to happen.
I don't hate you, I love you, you're part of myself, you're my heart and when you go it's my heart torn out and carried away--
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