A strong hatred is the best lamp to bear in our hands as we go over the dark places of life, cutting away the dead things men tell us to revere.
Rebecca WestRead
There is no such thing as conversation. It is an illusion. There are intersecting monologues, that is all.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that true conversation is a myth and that people engage in self-centered speech rather than genuine dialogue.
Rebecca West's quote highlights the idea that what we often perceive as conversation is merely a series of individual expressions. Instead of meaningful exchanges, we often find ourselves in situations where people are more focused on articulating their own thoughts, creating a disconnected atmosphere rather than a genuine dialogue. This observation prompts a deeper reflection on the nature of communication and the importance of listening and understanding in our interactions.
Themes
ConversationCommunicationMonologuesDialogueIllusion
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used during a discussion about effective communication in a workshop.
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All quotes βworks of art feel towards human beings exactly as we do towards ghosts. The transparency of spectres, the diffuseness in space which lets them drift through doors and walls, and their smell of death, disgust us not more than we disgust works of art by our meaninglessness, our diffuseness in time which lets us drift through three score years and ten without a quarter as much significance as a picture establishes instantaneously.
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I wonder if we are all wrong about each other, if we are just composing unwritten novels about the people we meet?
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It's my profession to bring people from various outlying districts of the mind to the normal. There seems to be a general feeling it's the place where they ought to be. Sometimes I don't see the urgency myself.
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God forbid that any book should be banned. The practice is as indefensible as infanticide.
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