Pride is founded not on the sense of happiness, but on the sense of power.
William HazlittRead
There are few things in which we deceive ourselves more than in the esteem we profess to entertain for our friends. It is little better than a piece of quackery. The truth is, we think of them as we please, that is, as they please or displease us.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We often misrepresent our feelings towards friends based on our subjective perceptions.
In this quote, William Hazlitt suggests that our claims of valuing friendships are often deceptive. He argues that our true feelings toward our friends are more influenced by how they affect us rather than any genuine esteem we may profess, pointing out the subjective nature of our relationships.
Themes
FriendshipDeceptionEsteemFeelingsRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the nature of friendships during a psychology class.
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