If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
I don't think there's such a thing as autobiographical fiction. If I say it happened, it happened, even if only in my mind.
Interpretation
Maya Angelou emphasizes the idea that personal experiences shape our reality, regardless of their authenticity.
In this quote, Maya Angelou explores the blurred lines between fact and fiction in storytelling. She suggests that if an experience feels real to the storyteller, it holds validity, reflecting the subjective nature of memory and truth. This perspective highlights that our thoughts and feelings can create our realities, lending importance to individual perception in personal narratives.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about the nature of memory in psychology lectures.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Spirituality is meant to take us beyond our tribal identity into a domain of awareness that is more universal.
Our intention is to affirm this life, not to bring order out of chaos, nor to suggest improvements in creation, but simply to wake up to the very life we're living, which is so excellent once one gets one's mind and desires out of its way and lets it act of it's own accord.
The only real number is one, the rest are mere repetition
Live for this life as though you live in it forever and live for the life to come as though you die tomorrow.
We must see that consciousness is neither an isolated soul nor the mere function of a single nervous system, but of that totality of interrelated stars and galaxies which makes a nervous system possible.
True religion, like our founding principles, requires that the rights of the disbeliever be equally acknowledged with those of the believer.
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