Insecurity twists meanings and poisons trust. In a closely beleaguered city every sentry is a potential traitor.
Time has its revenges, but revenge seems so often sour. Wouldn’t we all do better not trying to understand, accepting the fact that no human being will ever understand another, not a wife with a husband, nor a parent a child? Perhaps that’s why men have invented God – a being capable of understanding.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on the complexities of human relationships and the limitations of understanding each other.
Graham Greene's quote explores the notion that revenge often leads to bitterness and that true understanding among individuals is nearly impossible. He suggests that this lack of understanding is a fundamental aspect of human relationships, where even the closest bonds can fail to bridge the gap between souls. The mention of God highlights humanity's desire for a greater understanding and connection, indicating that our relationships are sometimes fraught with discord inherent to our differing perspectives.
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In a discussion about human nature and relationships during a philosophy lecture.
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