Death carries off a man busy picking flowers with an besotted mind, like a great flood does a sleeping village.
Gautama BuddhaRead
The tongue like a sharp knife ... Kills without drawing blood.
Interpretation
Words can harm others deeply without physical violence.
This quote by Gautama Buddha emphasizes the power of speech and the impact words can have on individuals. Like a sharp knife, harsh words can inflict emotional pain and damage without causing any visible harm, highlighting the importance of using language thoughtfully and kindly.
In practice
During a workshop on effective communication, one could mention this quote to illustrate the importance of speaking kindly.
Death carries off a man busy picking flowers with an besotted mind, like a great flood does a sleeping village.
A kind man who makes good use of wealth is rightly said to possess a great treasure; but the miser who hoards up his riches will have no profit.
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Make an island of yourself, make yourself your refuge; there is no other refuge. Make truth your island, make truth your refuge; there is no other refuge.
When a wise man is advised of his errors, he will reflect on and improve his conduct. When his misconduct is pointed out, a foolish man will not only disregard the advice but rather repeat the same error.
Care about your children. Just bless them instead of worrying, as every child is the little Buddha who helps his parents to grow up.
Study how water flows in a valley stream, smoothly and freely between the rocks. Also learn from holy books and wise people. Everything - even mountains, rivers, plants and trees - should be your teacher.
It's better to be kind than to be right.
Once we recognize the fact that every individual is a treasury of hidden and unsuspected qualities, our lives become richer, our judgement better, and our world is more right. It is not love that is blind, it is only the unnoticing eye that cannot see the real qualities of people.
The reason why many are still troubled, still seeking, still making little forward progress is because they haven't yet come to the end of themselves. We're still trying to give orders, and interfering with God's work within us.
He is a good man who can receive a gift well.
All the things you're not supposed to do at the beginning of your professional life - transgressiveness, arbitrariness and violating expectations - you find more attractive at the end of your professional life.
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