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He felt all the torment of his and her position, all the difficulties they were surrounded by in consequence of their station in life, which exposed them to the eyes of the whole world, obliged them to hide their love, to lie and deceive, and again to lie and deceive, to scheme and constantly think about others while the passion that bound them was so strong that they both forgot everything but their love.
Leo Tolstoy
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote reflects the struggles faced by lovers constrained by societal expectations and norms.

In this quote, Tolstoy highlights the intense emotional turmoil experienced by a couple whose love is deeply felt yet impeded by the constraints of their social class. The pressures of societal scrutiny force them to conceal their feelings, leading to a cycle of deceit and pretense, which underscores the conflict between their deep passion and the societal norms that govern their lives.

Themes

LoveSocietyDeceptionPassionStruggle

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Example use cases

This quote can be used in a discussion about the impact of societal norms on personal relationships.

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