Normal, in our house, is like a blanket too short for a bed--sometimes it covers you just fine, and other times it leaves you cold and shaking; and worst of all, you never know which of the two it's going to be.
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She wondered if this was true of every parent: if, prior to having children, they all used to be someone else.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Every parent undergoes a transformation after having children, losing aspects of their former selves.
This quote reflects on the profound change that parenthood brings to an individual's identity. It suggests that before becoming parents, people often have their own distinct personalities, dreams, and lifestyles, which may shift significantly upon the arrival of children, leading them to feel as though they have become different or 'someone else.'
Themes
ParenthoodIdentityTransformationChangeFamily
In practice
Example use cases
During a parental advice seminar, this quote can highlight the identity changes that come with becoming a parent.
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