It is dangerous to be an American Negro male. America has never wanted its Negroes to be men, and does not, generally, treat them as men. It treats them as mascots, pets, or things.
James A. BaldwinRead
True rebels after all, are as rare as true lovers,and in both cases, to mistake a fever for passion can destroy one's life
Interpretation
True passion and rebellion are both rare and can be easily misunderstood, leading to life's destruction.
James A. Baldwin highlights the rarity of genuine rebels and genuine lovers, suggesting that passion can often be confused with mere intensity or fever. This confusion can lead individuals down destructive paths, whether in romantic relationships or in their drive for change, illustrating the need to discern true feelings and motivations.
In practice
This quote can be used in a speech about the challenges of authentic relationships.
It is dangerous to be an American Negro male. America has never wanted its Negroes to be men, and does not, generally, treat them as men. It treats them as mascots, pets, or things.
The white man discovered the Cross by way of the Bible, but the black man discovered the Bible by way of the Cross.
Those kids aren't dumb. But the people who run these schools want to make sure they don't get smart: they are really teaching the kids to be slaves.
Experience, which destroys innocence, also leads one back to it.
The reason people think it's important to be white is that they think it's important not to be black.
The trick is to love somebody.... If you love one person, you see everybody else differently.
The winds that sometimes take something we love, are the same that bring us something we learn to love. Therefore we should not cry about something that was taken from us, but, yes, love what we have been given. Because what is really ours is never gone forever.
I wanted so badly to lie down next to her on the couch, to wrap my arms around her and sleep... Just sleep together, in the most innocent sense of the phrase. But I lacked the courage and she had a boyfriend and I was gawky and she was gorgeous and I was boring and she was endlessly fascinating. So I walked back to my room and collapsed on the bottom bunk, thinking that if people were rain, I was drizzle and she was a hurricane.
Love will fly if held too lightly Love will die if held too tightly . . .
... Chicago divided your heart. Leaving you loving the joint for keeps. Yet knowing it never can love you.
She rested her head against his and felt, for the first time, what she would often feel with him: a self-affection. He made her like herself. With him, she was at ease; her skin felt as though it was her right size.. It seemed so natural, to talk to him about odd things. She had never done that before. The trust, so sudden and yet so complete, and the intimacy, frightened her.. But now she could think only of all the things she yet wanted to tell him, wanted to do with him.
Every day we are offered new means for learning and growing in love.
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