The need to be right can arise from a fear of being disrespected. Or it may come out of the fear of being seen as we really are: as flawed human beings who are perfectly imperfect and full of contradictions and confusions.
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You can't truly listen to someone and do anything else at the same time.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Genuine listening requires full attention; multitasking can hinder understanding.
This quote by Julian Treasure emphasizes the importance of active listening in communication. It suggests that effective listening cannot occur if one is distracted by other tasks because true engagement and understanding necessitate undivided focus on the speaker.
Themes
ListeningCommunicationAttentionEngagementUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
In a team meeting, to emphasize the importance of listening to each other without distractions.
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All quotes βThe human voice: It's the instrument we all play. It's the most powerful sound in the world, probably. It's the only one that can start a war or say 'I love you.' And yet many people have the experience that when they speak, people don't listen to them.
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Intention is very important in sound, in listening. When I married my wife, I promised her I would listen to her every day as if for the first time. Now that's something I fall short of on a daily basis.
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Just three minutes a day of silence is a wonderful exercise to reset your ears and to recalibrate so that you can hear the quiet again. If you can't get absolute silence, go for quiet; that's absolutely fine.
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People find birdsong relaxing and reassuring because over thousands of years, they have learnt when the birds sing, they are safe; it's when birds stop singing that people need to worry.
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This devaluing of listening is handed down from generation to generation. There are many children who don't have the experience of being listened to by their parents.
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