Tis Man's to explore up and down, inch by inch, with the taper his reason.
If two lives join, there is oft a scar. They are one and one, with a shadowy third; One near one is too far.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that when two individuals come together, their union can leave emotional marks, revealing the complexities of intimacy.
Robert Browning's quote reflects on the intricate nature of relationships, emphasizing that when two people unite, they often bring with them past experiences and emotional baggage, which can result in a 'scar'βa metaphor for the emotional remnants of their past lives. The idea of being 'one and one, with a shadowy third' suggests that their individual identities are still present even within the union, creating a dynamic where closeness can sometimes lead to distance or misunderstanding.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
In a wedding ceremony, this quote can be used to highlight the emotional depth of marital union.
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How good is life, the mere living!
Where the apple reddens never pry - lest we lose our Edens, Eve and I.
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