Ask yourself whether you are happy', observed the philosopher John Stuart Mill, 'and you cease to be so.' At best, it would appear, happiness can only be glimpsed out of the corner of an eye, not stared at directly.
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Uncertainty is where things happen. It is where the opportunities - for success, for happiness, for really living - are waiting.
Interpretation
Embracing uncertainty opens the door to new opportunities for happiness and success.
This quote emphasizes the importance of uncertainty as a fertile ground for growth and opportunity. It suggests that great things such as success and genuine happiness often arise from situations where we cannot predict the outcome, encouraging us to embrace the unknown rather than fear it, as it is within this unpredictability that we can truly experience life.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal growth.
Ask yourself whether you are happy', observed the philosopher John Stuart Mill, 'and you cease to be so.' At best, it would appear, happiness can only be glimpsed out of the corner of an eye, not stared at directly.
Reassurance can actually exacerbate anxiety: when you reassure your friend that the worst-case scenario he fears probably won't occur, you inadvertently reinforce his belief that it would be catastrophic if it did. You are tightening the coil of his anxiety, not loosening it. All to often, the Stoics point out, things will not turn out for the best.
True security lies in the unrestrained embrace of insecurity - in the recognition that we never really stand on solid ground, and never can.
The effort to feel happy is often precisely the thing that makes us miserable. And that it is out constant efforts to eliminate the negative - insecurity, uncertainty, failure, or sadness - that is what causes us to feel so insecure, anxious, uncertain, or unhappy.
I don't know. Only God knows where the story ends for me, but I know where the story begins. It's up to us to choose, whether we win or lose and I choose to win.
My life as an advocate for those most in need is inspired by my mother's example. She believed in the potential inherent in each of us, and that belief is the foundation of my work.
The biggest problem I see with early-stage entrepreneurs is they get the idea in their head, and they leave it in their head. And they begin embellishing it in their head, making it more ornate. They add on the second story to their dream house - then add the tennis court and the turrets and the gargoyles.
With engineering, I view this year's failure as next year's opportunity to try it again. Failures are not something to be avoided. You want to have them happen as quickly as you can so you can make progress rapidly.
Track and field is the best way to reach out for kids. It doesn't matter how fast you are. You always want to beat someone.
I give myself permission to be all that I can be, and I deserve the very best in life.
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