Ask yourself whether you are happy', observed the philosopher John Stuart Mill, 'and you cease to be so.' At best, it would appear, happiness can only be glimpsed out of the corner of an eye, not stared at directly.
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Uncertainty is where things happen. It is where the opportunities - for success, for happiness, for really living - are waiting.
Interpretation
Embracing uncertainty opens the door to new opportunities for happiness and success.
This quote emphasizes the importance of uncertainty as a fertile ground for growth and opportunity. It suggests that great things such as success and genuine happiness often arise from situations where we cannot predict the outcome, encouraging us to embrace the unknown rather than fear it, as it is within this unpredictability that we can truly experience life.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal growth.
Ask yourself whether you are happy', observed the philosopher John Stuart Mill, 'and you cease to be so.' At best, it would appear, happiness can only be glimpsed out of the corner of an eye, not stared at directly.
Reassurance can actually exacerbate anxiety: when you reassure your friend that the worst-case scenario he fears probably won't occur, you inadvertently reinforce his belief that it would be catastrophic if it did. You are tightening the coil of his anxiety, not loosening it. All to often, the Stoics point out, things will not turn out for the best.
True security lies in the unrestrained embrace of insecurity - in the recognition that we never really stand on solid ground, and never can.
The effort to feel happy is often precisely the thing that makes us miserable. And that it is out constant efforts to eliminate the negative - insecurity, uncertainty, failure, or sadness - that is what causes us to feel so insecure, anxious, uncertain, or unhappy.
The name of the game is to talk to people. If you don't talk to people, you can't get started...You knock on twenty doors or so, and twenty guys tell you to go to hell, or that they haven't got time. But maybe at the fortieth or sixtieth house you find the one guy who is all you need. You're not going to organize everything; you're just going to get it started.
The impossible is the least that one can demand.
I'm a tough old broad from Brooklyn. I intend to go on acting until I'm ninety, and they won't need to paste my face with make-up.
Kites rise highest against the wind - not with it.
There is no heavier burden than an unfulfilled potential.
My generation of Americans, the scions of daring dreamers, the children of the fearlessly faithful and the offspring of many of history's most audacious actors - we, together, drink deeply from wells of freedom, liberty and opportunity that we did not dig.
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