I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
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Vex not thy spirit at the course of things; they heed not thy vexation. How ludicrous and outlandish is astonishment at anything that may happen in life.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Don't let life's events upset you, as they are beyond your control.
This quote by Marcus Aurelius emphasizes the importance of maintaining composure in the face of life's inevitable occurrences. He suggests that becoming upset or astonished at circumstances is futile, as the course of events will unfold regardless of our personal feelings about them, and advocating for a mindset of acceptance and understanding towards life's unpredictability.
Themes
AcceptanceCalmLifeSerenityPhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
During a public speaking event about mental health, one might use this quote to encourage resilience.
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