We are not asked to SEE," said Amy. "Why need we when we KNOW?" We know--not the answer to the inevitable Why, but the incontestable fact that it is for the best. "It is an irreparable loss, but is it faith at all if it is 'hard to trust' when things are entirely bewildering?
Our vision is so limited we can hardly imagine a love that does not show itself in protection from suffering.... The love of God did not protect His own Son.... He will not necessarily protect us - not from anything it takes to make us like His Son. A lot of hammering and chiseling and purifying by fire will have to go into the process.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True love may include suffering and sacrifice, and it is not always protective.
Elisabeth Elliot reflects on the nature of love, particularly divine love, emphasizing that love does not always shield us from pain or suffering. Just as God's love for His Son did not prevent Him from facing hardship, our own journeys may require us to endure challenges that ultimately shape and refine us, akin to a sculptor working with a hammer and chisel. This perspective invites us to understand that love is not merely about comfort, but also about growth through trials and tribulations.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a sermon on love, one could use this quote to illustrate that true love often involves sacrifice.
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