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I don't want other people to decide who I am. I want to decide that for myself. I want to avoid becoming too styled and too 'done' and too generic. You see people as they go through their career, and they just become more and more like everyone else.
Emma Watson
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What this quote means

The quote expresses a desire for self-definition and individuality in the face of societal expectations.

Emma Watson emphasizes the importance of self-identity and the need to resist external pressures that may mold one into a generic version of oneself. She observes that as people progress in their careers, they often lose their uniqueness, conforming instead to societal norms, and she advocates for making personal choices that reflect one's true self rather than succumbing to the influence of others.

Themes

IdentityIndividualitySelf-DefinitionAuthenticityConformity

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be used in a speech about personal growth at a graduation ceremony.

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