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A way of life that keeps saying 'Around the next corner, above the next step,' works against the natural order of things and makes it so difficult to be happy and good.
Benjamin Hoff
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Constantly seeking happiness in what's next can hinder our ability to appreciate the present.

This quote suggests that a life focused on constantly looking for happiness in future events or achievements can disrupt our ability to find joy in the present moment. It highlights the importance of recognizing and embracing the current experience rather than perpetually chasing after a distant promise of happiness.

Themes

HappinessContentmentPresentLifeJoy

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational speech about mindfulness and being present.

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