They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
Edith WhartonRead
What's the use of making mysteries? It only makes people want to nose 'em out.
Interpretation
Creating mysteries can lead to curiosity and attempts to uncover the truth.
This quote by Edith Wharton suggests that mysteries serve no practical purpose as they only ignite curiosity in others, prompting them to seek out the truth. The statement highlights the human tendency to explore the unknown and implies that transparency may be more beneficial than obscurity.
In practice
This quote can be used during a discussion about the importance of transparency in relationships.
They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
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