If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
You dwell in whitened castles with deep and poisoned moats and cannot hear the curses which fill your children's throats.
Interpretation
The quote highlights the disconnect between privileged living and the struggles of the less fortunate, especially children.
Maya Angelou's quote points out the irony of living a comfortable, insulated life ('whitened castles') while being oblivious to the suffering and pain that affects vulnerable individuals, particularly children, who may feel abandoned or cursed by their circumstances. It serves as a powerful reminder that privilege often comes with responsibility and the need for awareness of others' hardships.
In practice
During a speech about social justice, a leader might reference this quote to emphasize the need for societal awareness.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
The way of paradoxes is the way of truth. To test Reality we must see it on the tight-rope.
The moment the slave resolves that he will no longer be a slave, his fetters fall. Freedom and slavery are mental states.
Mere negation, mere Epicurean infidelity, as Lord Bacon most justly observes, has never disturbed the peace of the world. It furnishes no motive for action; it inspires no enthusiasm; it has no missionaries, no crusades, no martyrs.
I turn to right and left, in all the earth I see no signs of justice, sense or worth: A man does evil deeds, and all his days Are filled with luck and universal praise; Another's good in all he does - he dies A wretched, broken man whom all despise.
People only say I'm angry because I'm black and I'm a woman. But all sorts of people write with strong feeling, the way I do.
If there is some corner of the world which has remained peaceful, but with a peace based on injustices the peace of a swamp with rotten matter fermenting in its depths - we may be sure that that peace is false. Violence attracts violence. Let us repeat fearlessly and ceaselessly: injustices bring revolt, either from the oppressed or from the young, determined to fight for a more just and more human world.
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