Art begins when a man, with a purpose of communicating to other people a feeling he once experienced, calls it up again within himself and expresses it by certain external signs.
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The whole trouble lies in that people think that there are conditions excluding the necessity of love in their intercourse with man, but such conditions do not exist. Things may be treated without love; one may chop wood, make bricks, forge iron without love, but one can no more deal with people without love than one can handle bees without care.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love is essential in all human interactions.
In this quote, Tolstoy emphasizes that while certain tasks can be completed without love—like chopping wood or forging iron—human interactions require love and care. He compares dealing with people to handling bees, suggesting that just as bees need careful handling to avoid harm, so too do our relationships need the nurturing quality of love to thrive.
Themes
LoveRelationshipsHuman InteractionCareTolstoy
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about teamwork, one could say, 'As Tolstoy noted, love is fundamental in our interactions.'
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