We deify willpower and self-control - and mock its absence. People who achieve through remarkable willpower are 'strong' and 'heroic.' People who need help or structure are 'weak.' This is crazy - because few of us can accurately gauge or predict our willpower.
Interpretation
This quote critiques society's view on willpower, suggesting that reliance on it is often misleading and unfair.
Marshall Goldsmith highlights the societal tendency to idolize willpower and self-control while stigmatizing those who struggle with these traits. He argues that such views are irrational, as they ignore the inherent unpredictability of human willpower and the complex factors that contribute to personal achievement. Goldsmith urges a more compassionate understanding of human behavior rather than a binary judgment of strength or weakness.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth.
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Treat every piece of advice as a gift or a compliment and simply say, “Thank you.
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