For thousands of years, men have written history, so it seems to me that most of what we've read is from the male point of view.
Stacy SchiffRead
A woman can never be too rich or too thin, but until very, very recently, she could be too powerful, for which - if she wasn't smart enough to camouflage herself - she generally paid the price.
Interpretation
This quote highlights that societal standards often limit women's power and success, suggesting they must be cautious in displaying such traits.
Stacy Schiff's quote reflects on the historical context where women faced repercussions for being powerful, emphasizing the societal norms that dictate acceptable behaviors for women. It suggests that while wealth and thinness were celebrated traits, power was often feared and suppressed, compelling women to hide their strength to avoid backlash.
In practice
This quote could be used in a women's empowerment seminar to discuss societal expectations.
For thousands of years, men have written history, so it seems to me that most of what we've read is from the male point of view.
And in the absence of facts, myth rushes in, the kudzu of history.
It has always been preferable to attribute a woman's success to her beauty rather than to her brains, to reduce her to the sum of her sex life.
Cleopatra had one great advantage. She lived at a time when female sovereigns were not anomalies. And when women enjoyed rights they would not again enjoy for another 2,000 years. You could call them early feminists, if I may use a dirty word.
Power has for so long been a male construct that it distorted the shape of the first women who tried it on, only to find themselves in a sort of straitjacket.
Women enjoyed rights in Egypt they would not again enjoy for more than 2,000 years. They owned ships, ran vineyards, filed lawsuits, practiced medicine. Their husbands supported them after divorce. Their power was unprecedented.
Men are boys for such a long time and really don't start getting the great roles until they're in their mid-thirties. But then they've got a long time to do them, whereas for women, it's all about playing younger and younger and younger.
I don't hold myself out as a role model. I don't believe that everyone should make the same choices; that everyone has to want to be a CEO, or everyone should want to be a work-at-home mother. I want everyone to be able to choose. But I want us to be able to choose unencumbered by gender choosing for us.
What works for a man, still does not work for a woman - both in terms of how they see themselves and how we see them.
Women want mediocre men, and men are working to be as mediocre as possible.
All too often, girls are ignored because their challenges aren't thought to be as serious as those faced by boys.
The more legal and material hindrances women have broken through, the more strictly and heavily and cruelly images of female beauty have come to weigh upon them.
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