As women, we are constantly criticising and judging ourselves in terms of our body, how we dress, what profession we take up, how we fare in that. Indian women are gifted with certain body types and features, which is healthy, and we should accept that.
Interpretation
Women often face self-criticism regarding their bodies and choices, but acceptance is key.
In this quote, Vidya Balan highlights the pervasive tendency among women to judge themselves harshly based on societal standards of beauty and success. She emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, suggesting that Indian women possess unique body types and characteristics that should be appreciated rather than criticized, promoting a positive self-image and confidence.
In practice
During a women's empowerment event to encourage self-love and acceptance.
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