The flip side of suicide is that it leaves a lingering question in the minds of the people who survived. It's like a cancer that's metastasized. The suicide is the cancer and the metastasis is all these people saying, Why? Why? Why?
When I use the word 'healing', by that I mean that every disease has a physical element that we're very good at handling, but there's always a sense of the violation. 'Why me?' 'Why is my leg broken on the ski trip and not anyone else's?' And I think that medicine has done a terrible job of addressing that spiritual violation.
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What this quote means
Healing encompasses physical recovery but also addresses emotional and spiritual aspects of suffering.
Abraham Verghese highlights the dual nature of healing, emphasizing that while medical science excels at treating physical ailments, it often overlooks the deeper emotional and spiritual repercussions of illness and injury. He suggests that when individuals experience distressing health issues, such as a broken leg, they grapple not only with the physical pain but also with existential questions about their suffering, leading to a sense of violation that medicine fails to adequately address.
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Example use cases
During a health seminar, I might quote this to emphasize the importance of addressing emotional health alongside physical health.
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