If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Words are things. You must be careful, careful about calling people out of their names, using racial pejoratives and sexual pejoratives and all that ignorance. Don’t do that. Some day we’ll be able to measure the power of words. I think they are things. They get on the walls. They get in your wallpaper. They get in your rugs, in your upholstery, and your clothes, and finally in to you.
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What this quote means
Words hold profound power and can deeply affect individuals and society. Careful consideration of language is essential to avoid harm.
In this quote, Maya Angelou emphasizes the significance of words and their impact on individuals and the environment. She warns against using derogatory language and highlights how words permeate our lives, influencing our thoughts, feelings, and interactions. The notion that words can infiltrate our surroundings and ultimately shape our identities underscores the necessity for mindfulness in communication, reflecting the broader implications of language in fostering respect and understanding among people.
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This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of respectful language in schools.
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