If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
I would say you might encounter many defeats but you must never be defeated, ever. In fact, it might even be necessary to confront defeat. It might be necessary, to get over it, all the way through it, and go on. I would teach her to laugh a lot. Laugh a lot at the - and the silliest things and be very, very serious. I'd teach her to love life, I can bet you that.
Interpretation
Embrace challenges and setbacks as essential parts of life, while maintaining a sense of humor and love for living.
Maya Angelou emphasizes the importance of resilience in the face of adversity. She suggests that encountering defeats is a natural part of life and that one must learn to confront and overcome them. The quote also highlights the value of finding joy in life's smallest moments and the significance of nurturing a love for life, enabling one to remain serious when necessary but also to laugh and enjoy the journey.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a graduation speech to inspire graduates facing future challenges.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Never read any book that is not a year old.
Some ideas are so stupid that only intellectuals believe them.
Surrender means wisely accommodating ourselves to what is beyond our control.
I'm not a great programmer; I'm just a good programmer with great habits.
I do not believe great organizations have ever been built by trying to emulate another, any more than individual greatness is achieved by trying to copy another 'great person'.
I'm used to people with very high IQs knowing how to recognize reality, but there's a huge human tendency where it may be instructive to think that whatever you're doing to succeed is all right.
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