I would like to believe this is a story I’m telling. I need to believe it. I must believe it. Those who can believe that such stories are only stories have a better chance. If it’s a story I’m telling, then I have control over the ending. Then there will be an ending, to the story, and real life will come after it. I can pick up where I left off.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the power of storytelling in shaping one's reality and future.
Margaret Atwood's quote reflects the idea that by framing our experiences as a narrative, we can exert control over our lives and the outcomes we desire. It suggests that believing in our ability to shape our story allows us to envision and create an ending, distinguishing the narrative from reality, while providing hope and direction for the future.
In practice
In a motivational speech about resilience after setbacks.
If I am good enough and quiet enough, perhaps after all they will let me go; but it’s not easy being quiet and good, it’s like hanging on to the edge of a bridge when you’ve already fallen over; you don’t seem to be moving, just dangling there, and yet it is taking all your strength.
What else can I do? Once you've gone this far you aren't fit for anything else. Something happens to your mind. You're overqualified, overspecialized, and everybody knows it. Nobody in any other game would be crazy enough to hire me. I wouldn't even make a good ditch-digger, I'd start tearing apart the sewer-system, trying to pick-axe and unearth all those chthonic symbols - pipes, valves, cloacal conduits... No, no. I'll have to be a slave in the paper-mines for all time.
We love each other, that’s true whatever it means, but we aren’t good at it; for some it’s a talent, for others only an addiction.
I've learned quite a lot, over the years, by avoiding what I was supposed to be learning.
Knowing too much about other people puts you in their power, they have a claim on you, you are forced to understand their reasons for doing things and then you are weakened.
This is the middle of my life, I think of it as a place, like the middle of a river, the middle of a bridge, halfway across, halfway over. I'm supposed to have accumulated things by now: possessions, responsibilities, achievements, experience and wisdom. I'm supposed to be a person of substance.
I just like to have words that describe things correctly. Now to me, 'black feminist' does not do that. I need a word that is organic, that really comes out of the culture, that really expresses the spirit that we see in black women. And it's just... womanish.
Freedom can be destroyed, not just by its retraction, but also by its abuse.
Cease being a prisoner of the body; using the secret key of Kriya, learn to escape into Spirit.
Laws should be made to serve the people. People should not be made to serve the laws.
A monk is a man who considers himself one with all men because he seems constantly to see himself in every man.
Forgive, son; men are men; they needs must err.
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