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Yet again, the more you strive for some kind of perfection or mastery—in morals, in art or in spirituality—the more you see that you are playing a rarified and lofty form of the old ego-game, and that your attainment of any height is apparent to yourself and to others only by contrast with someone else's depth or failure.
Alan Watts
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What this quote means

Striving for perfection often highlights the ego, revealing that success is often compared to others' failures.

In this quote, Alan Watts reflects on the idea that the pursuit of perfection—whether in morals, art, or spirituality—can lead to an inflated sense of self tied to the ego. Rather than genuinely achieving mastery, individuals often measure their success against the shortcomings of others, which can distort the true nature of their accomplishments and foster an unhealthy competitive mindset.

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Example use cases

In a discussion about personal growth, one might say, 'As Alan Watts noted, the more we strive for perfection, the more we fall into the trap of ego and comparison.'

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