We have done with Hope and Honour. we are lost to Love and Truth, We are dropping down the ladder rung by rung; And the measure of our torment is the measure of our youth. God help us, for we knew the worst too young!
When young lips have drunk deep of the bitter waters of hate, suspicion and despair, all the love in the world will not wholly take away that knowledge. Though it may turn darkened eyes for a while to the light, and teach faith where no faith was.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Experiencing hate and despair in youth leaves lasting scars that love alone may not completely heal.
In this quote, Rudyard Kipling addresses the deep emotional scars that arise from negative experiences such as hate and despair. He suggests that even though love has the power to bring hope and light into a person's life, it cannot erase the memories or lessons learned from suffering, particularly in one's formative years. The quote highlights the complexity of human emotions and the enduring impact of past experiences on an individual's ability to trust and believe in love.
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In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a workshop on emotional healing to illustrate how past traumas can affect one's ability to love.
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