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Abuse if you slight it, will gradually die away; but if you show yourself irritated, you will be thought to have deserved it.
Tacitus
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Ignoring minor insults can prevent them from escalating, while reacting may confirm their validity.

This quote from Tacitus suggests that when faced with abuse or slighting remarks, it is often wiser to disregard them. By ignoring such negativity, the motivation behind it can diminish over time. However, responding with irritation may lead others to believe that the provocations were justified, amplifying the issue rather than resolving it.

Themes

AbuseResponseIrritationWisdomConflict

In practice

Example use cases

In a moment of public speaking, this quote can illustrate the power of calmness in the face of criticism.

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