I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
Marcus AureliusRead
Accustom yourself not to be disregarding of what someone else has to say: as far as possible enter into the mind of the speaker.
Interpretation
Listen actively and empathize with others to understand their perspective.
This quote by Marcus Aurelius emphasizes the importance of active listening and empathy in communication. It urges individuals to set aside their own judgments and preconceptions in order to truly grasp the thoughts and feelings of the speaker, fostering deeper connections and mutual understanding.
In practice
In a team meeting, when discussing project ideas, I reminded everyone of Marcus Aurelius' quote to encourage open dialogue.
I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
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Vex not thy spirit at the course of things; they heed not thy vexation. How ludicrous and outlandish is astonishment at anything that may happen in life.
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A man's worth is no greater than his ambitions.
But how awful would that be? How terrible to live surrounded by the stark, sharp, hollowness of things that simply were enough?
There are voices crying what must be done, a hundred, a thousand voices. But what do they help if one seeks for counsel, for one cries this, and one cries that, and another cries something that is neither this nor that.
We are just an advanced breed of monkeys on a minor planet of a very average star. But we can understand the Universe. That makes us something very special.
A democratic government is the only one in which those who vote for a tax can escape the obligation to pay it.
Alice was beginning to get very tired of sitting by her sister on the bank, and of having nothing to do: once or twice she had peeped into the book her sister was reading, but it had no pictures or conversations in it, βand what is the use of a book,β thought Alice, βwithout pictures or conversation?
Humans are kind of story-propagating creatures. If you think of how we spend our days, think of all the time you spend on entertainment. How much of your entertainment centers around stories? Most pieces of music tell stories. Even hanging out with your friends, you talk, you tell stories to each other. They're all stories. We live in stories.
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