Never, ever underestimate the importance of having fun.
Randy PauschRead
All my adult life I've felt drawn to ask long-married couples how they were able to stay together. All of them said the same thing: "We worked hard at it.
Interpretation
Long-lasting relationships require effort and commitment from both partners.
In this quote, Randy Pausch reflects on his lifelong curiosity about the secrets to successful long-term marriages. He discovers that couples who have maintained their relationships for many years attribute their success to the hard work they put into sustaining their bond, highlighting that love is not just a feeling but also a choice and commitment that requires continuous effort.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of relationships during a wedding ceremony.
Never, ever underestimate the importance of having fun.
I'm attempting to put myself in a bottle that will one day wash up on the beach for my children.
It's hard to raise awareness of pancreatic cancer - people who get it don't live long enough.
Brick walls are there for a reason. They give us a chance to show how badly we want
Cancer didn't change me at all. I know lots of people talk about the life revelation. I didn't have that.
I think that we all stand on the dartboard of life. Roughly 30,000 people a year are going to catch a dart labeled pancreatic cancer, and that's unfortunate. It's not what I would have chosen. But I in no way feel like I deserved it.
You want to give me chocolate and flowers? That would be great. I love them both. I just don't want them out of guilt, and I don't want them if you're not going to give them to all the people who helped mother our children.
...real loneliness is having no one to miss. Think yourself lucky you've known something worth missing.
Don't wait for a funeral to pay a compliment. You may not make it in time.
If you close your eyes and think about where you feel the most safe, you're probably not going to tell me it's in a room full of police. You feel safe where you're around people that love you, when you have food and shelter, when you're being pushed to be your best self and learn.
Give me the gift of a listening heart.
Home is where somebody notices when you are no longer there.
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