A mediocre person tells. A good person explains. A superior person demonstrates. A great person inspires others to see for themselves.
Harvey MackayRead
Don't wait for a funeral to pay a compliment. You may not make it in time.
Interpretation
Appreciate others while they are alive; don't hold back kind words.
This quote emphasizes the importance of expressing appreciation and giving compliments to others while they can still hear them. It suggests that waiting until it's too late, such as at a funeral, is not only regrettable but also reinforces the idea that we should cherish our relationships and acknowledge the positive impact others have on our lives during their lifetime.
In practice
During a speech at a family gathering, to encourage others to express their love.
A mediocre person tells. A good person explains. A superior person demonstrates. A great person inspires others to see for themselves.
Employee loyalty begins with employer loyalty. Your employees should know that if they do the job they were hired to do with a reasonable amount of competence and efficiency, you will support them.
Most fears of rejection rest on the desire for approval from other people. Don't base your self-esteem on their opinions.
Don't equate activity with efficiency. You are paying your key people to see the big picture. Don't let them get bogged down in a lot of meaningless meetings and paper shuffling. Announce a Friday afternoon off once in a while. Cancel a Monday morning meeting or two. Tell the cast of characters you'd like them to spend the amount of time normally spent preparing for attending the meeting at their desks, simply thinking about an original idea.
It's only lonely at the top if you forget all the people you met along the way and fail to acknowledge their contributions to your success.
A dream is just a dream. A goal is a dream with a plan and a deadline.
Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold onto something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t come back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain.
I've learned that my people are not the only ones oppressed... I have sung my songs all over the world and everywhere found that some common bond makes the people of all lands take to Negro songs as their own.
I converted Dec. 31, 1999. It was a Friday. That was my second time going to the mosque. The woman who is my wife now... was basically raised Muslim - and she was at that point where she was deciding or trying to come to terms with her own relationship with Islam and how to embrace that for herself.
The opposite of love is not hate. It is fear.
Everybody who flashed the signs of loyalty he took to be loyal. Everybody who flashed the signs of intelligence he took to be intelligent. And so he had failed to see into his daughter, failed to see into his wife, failed to see into his one and only mistress—probably had never even begun to see into himself
"Don't you want to join us?" I was recently asked by an acquaintance when he ran across me alone after midnight in a coffeehouse that was already almost deserted. "No, I don't," I said.
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