Never promise more than you can perform.
Publilius SyrusRead
Adversity shows whether we have friends, or only the shadows of friends.
Interpretation
True friends reveal themselves during tough times, while superficial friends vanish.
This quote highlights the importance of genuine friendships as they become evident during times of adversity. When faced with challenges, true friends stand by us and support us, whereas those who are not true friends may only be present in good times, revealing their true nature as mere shadows rather than real companionship.
In practice
This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of friendship during difficult times.
Never promise more than you can perform.
Pain forces even the innocent to lie.
In a heated argument we are apt to lose sight of the truth.
Admonish your friends privately, but praise them openly.
What a tragedy is help where it harms what it supports!
The miser is as much in want of what he has as of what he has not.
It is a great folly to be willing to violate the friendship of God, rather than the law of human friendship.
If youβll believe in me, Iβll believe in you.
I don't need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better.
The friend within the man is that part of him which belongs to you and opens to you a door which never, perhaps, is opened to another. Such a friend is true, and all he says is true; and he loves you even if he hates you in other mansions of his heart.
We secure our friends not by accepting favors but by doing them.
That is the remarkable thing about drinking: it brings people together so quickly, but between night and morning it sets an interval again of years.
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