Never promise more than you can perform.
Publilius SyrusRead
Adversity shows whether we have friends, or only the shadows of friends.
Interpretation
True friends reveal themselves during tough times, while superficial friends vanish.
This quote highlights the importance of genuine friendships as they become evident during times of adversity. When faced with challenges, true friends stand by us and support us, whereas those who are not true friends may only be present in good times, revealing their true nature as mere shadows rather than real companionship.
In practice
This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of friendship during difficult times.
Never promise more than you can perform.
Pain forces even the innocent to lie.
In a heated argument we are apt to lose sight of the truth.
Admonish your friends privately, but praise them openly.
What a tragedy is help where it harms what it supports!
The miser is as much in want of what he has as of what he has not.
Let our friends perish, provided that our enemies fall at the same time.
All male friendships are essentially quixotic: they last only so long as each man is willing to polish the shaving-bowl helmet, climb on his donkey, and ride off after the other in pursuit of illusive glory and questionable adventure.
The heart of a friend gives out sufficient light for us in the dark to rise by.
Books like friends, should be few and well-chosen.
I shall choose friends among men, but neither slaves nor masters. And I shall choose only such as please me, and them I shall love and respect, but neither command nor obey. And we shall join our hands when we wish, or walk alone when we so desire.
One who knows how to show and to accept kindness will be a friend better than any possession.
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