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I shall choose friends among men, but neither slaves nor masters. And I shall choose only such as please me, and them I shall love and respect, but neither command nor obey. And we shall join our hands when we wish, or walk alone when we so desire.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and independence in friendships without hierarchies.
Ayn Rand's quote articulates a vision of friendship based on equality, autonomy, and personal choice. It expresses a desire for relationships that are free from the constraints of power dynamics, where individuals love and respect each other based on personal affection rather than obligation or subservience. The notion of joining hands or walking alone underscores the freedom to choose one's path while still valuing companionship.
Themes
FriendshipEqualityRespectAutonomyRelationship
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of equality in relationships.
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