To shift the structure of a sentence alters the meaning of that sentence, as definitely and inflexibly as the position of a camera alters the meaning of the object photographed.
Joan DidionRead
Why do you always have to be right. Why do you always have to have the last word. For once in your life just let it go.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of letting go of the need to be right in conflicts.
Joan Didion's quote reflects on the human tendency to cling to being correct in arguments and discussions, highlighting how this need can hinder personal connections. It encourages a shift in perspective, prompting individuals to prioritize harmony and understanding over the compulsion to always have the final say or to prove their point. By letting go, one can foster more meaningful relationships and promote peace in interactions.
In practice
During a team meeting, when disagreements arise, one might use this quote to remind colleagues to focus on solutions instead of being right.
To shift the structure of a sentence alters the meaning of that sentence, as definitely and inflexibly as the position of a camera alters the meaning of the object photographed.
The truth is, it's easier for me to write than talk... to express the state I'm in at any time.
Memories are what you no longer want to remember.
It was clear, for example, in 1988 that the political process had already become perilously remote from the electorate it was meant to represent.
I mean maybe I was holding all the aces, but what was the game?
Do not whine... Do not complain. Work harder. Spend more time alone.
The most creative social strategy we have to offer is the church. Here we show the world a manner of life the world can never achieve through social coercion or governmental action. We serve the world by showing it something that it is not, namely, a place where God is forming a family out of strangers.
It never seems to occur to anybody that some women may not want to find husbands.
If you can show me how I can cling to that which is real to me, while teaching me a way into the larger society, then and only then will I drop my defenses and hostility, and I will sing your praises and help you to make the desert bear fruit.
We live in a society where we may have differences, of course, but we learn to celebrate these differences.
I have known more men destroyed by the desire to have wife and child and to keep them in comfort than I have seen destroyed by drink and harlots.
Excess of love, did ye say? There was no excess, there was defect. She loved her son too little, not too much. If she had loved him more there'd be no difficulty.
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