The poet is one who is able to keep the fresh vision of the child alive.
Anais NinRead
There were always in me, two women at least, one woman desperate and bewildered, who felt she was drowning and another who would leap into a scene, as upon a stage, conceal her true emotions because they were weaknesses, helplessness, despair, and present to the world only a smile, an eagerness, curiosity, enthusiasm, interest.
Interpretation
The quote illustrates the inner conflict between vulnerability and the facade people often show to the world.
Anais Nin's quote reflects the duality of human emotions, particularly in women, where one part yearns for authenticity and understanding, while another part feels the pressure to mask true feelings with a facade of positivity and strength. This internal struggle highlights the complexities of identity and the societal expectations placed on women to appear strong and composed despite their true emotions.
In practice
In a speech about mental health, this quote highlights the importance of embracing vulnerability.
The poet is one who is able to keep the fresh vision of the child alive.
Anxiety is love's greatest killer, because it is like the stranglehold of the drowning.
We celebrate peace. Yet we pay no attention to the ways of curing aggression in human beings. And when one sees in psychoanalysis hostility disappearing as people conquer their fears, one wonders if the cure is not there.
The impetus to grow and live intensely is so powerful in me I cannot resist it. I will work, I will love my husband, but I will fulfill myself.
We have been poisoned by fairy tales.
But I lie. I embellish. My words are not deep enough. They disguise, they conceal. I will not rest until I have told of my descent into a sensuality which was as dark, as magnificent, as wild, as my moments of mystic creation have been dazzling, ecstatic, exalted.
I trust it will not be giving away professional secrets to say that many readers would be surprised, perhaps shocked, at the questions which some newspaper editors will put to a defenseless woman under the guise of flattery.
Men are allowed to have passion and commitment for their work... a woman is allowed that feeling for a man, but not her work.
Maybe you’ve invested a lot of time, effort, money, emotion, and energy in a relationship; you did your best to make it work out. But for some reason, things got off course. And now you feel as though you have been robbed. When we focus on or disappointments, we stop God from ringing fresh new blessing into our lives.
My father has a way of persuading people without charm that has always confused me. He states his opinions as if they’re facts, and somehow his complete lack of doubt makes you believe him. That quality frightens me now, because I know what he told me: that I was broken, that I was worthless, that I was nothing. How many of those things did he make me believe?
Until we meet again, may God bless you as he has blessed me.
If you care about somebody, you should want them to be happy. Even if you wind up being left out.
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