For better or for worse, I've watched people die in front of me. I see how they are in the end. And they're not cynical. In the end, they wanna hold somebody's hand. And that's real to me.
Mitch AlbomRead
Anger is a poison. It eats us inside. We think when we hate someone we hurt them, but hatred is a curved blade, and the harm we do to others we also do to ourselves.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Anger and hatred ultimately harm ourselves more than those we direct it towards.
This quote by Mitch Albom highlights the destructive nature of anger and hatred. It suggests that while we may believe that our negative emotions can hurt others, they primarily lead to our own suffering, illustrating a profound truth about the interconnectedness of our emotions and actions.
Themes
AngerHatredSelf-HarmWisdomEmotions
In practice
Example use cases
During a workshop on emotional intelligence.
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