Because neither she nor Port had ever lived a life of any kind of regularity, they had both made the fatal error of coming hazily to regard time as non-existent. One year was like another year. Eventually everything would happen.
[A]nother important difference between tourist and traveler is that the former accepts his own civilization without question; not so the traveler, who compares it with the others, and rejects those elements he finds not to his liking.
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What this quote means
The quote differentiates between tourists, who passively accept their own culture, and travelers, who critically assess and compare cultures.
In this quote, Paul Bowles highlights a critical distinction between tourists and travelers. While tourists tend to embrace their own culture without scrutiny, travelers actively engage with different cultures, questioning and evaluating their own beliefs and norms. This process of comparison allows travelers to reject aspects of their civilization that do not resonate with them, ultimately leading to a more profound understanding of the world and personal growth.
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Example use cases
Using this quote in a travel blog to emphasize the importance of understanding different cultures.
More from Paul Bowles
All quotes →Whereas the tourist generally hurries back home at the end of a few weeks or months, the traveler belonging no more to one place than to the next, moves slowly over periods of years, from one part of the earth to another. Indeed, he would have found it difficult to tell, among the many places he had lived, precisely where it was he had felt most at home.
I've always wanted to get as far as possible from the place where I was born. Far both geographically and spiritually. To leave it behind ... I feel that life is very short and the world is there to see and one should know as much about it as possible. One belongs to the whole world, not just one part of it.
Each time I go to a place I have not seen before I hope it will be as different as possible from the places I already know. I assume it is natural for a traveler to seek diversity, and that it is the human element that makes him most aware of difference. If people and their manner of living were alike everywhere, there would not be much point in moving from one place to another.
The act of living had been enjoyable; at some point when I was not paying attention, it had turned into a different sort of experience, to whose grimness I had grown so accustomed that I now took it for granted.
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